Step 3. Opposites attract. Your differences brought you together. She is strong where he is weak. He is strong where she is weak. Together, you are stronger. It's time to celebrate our strengths by submitting to one another's strengths. I don't feel threatened by how smart my wife is. I feel empowered! Because we are one! We draw from each other's strength, and eradicate the weaknesses.
Step 4. Eliminate the divorce option. So much of the time marriages begin with, 'if it's not what I want, I'll just divorce...' But I think most marriages would last if approached like this, 'this is the only marriage we are ever gonna have, let's make it the best it can be...' then work at it.
Step 5. Don't compare. It doesn't matter how beautiful Carrie Underwood is, she's not your wife, so don't compare. The goal is making this marriage be all we can be for each other.
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.
He that hath ears to hear let him hear.